Because when he moved up here I found out that he was seeing someone there (before he moved) and didn’t have the guts to end it with her (so he says).
So he told her a lie and said he was moving because of a job to a different city even, but he still had contact with her once he moved here.
She is his wife; they’ve been separated for almost two years, but she’s still a large presence in his life.
I just wanted to hook up, play the field, something that I (a serial monogamist) have never done before.
Now here we are a year later, still together, and he and his other girlfriend are expecting a baby in July.
You and your boyfriend might also have different perceptions about your relationship status.
If you think your relationship is exclusive and he does not, you need to determine what type of relationship you have and if you are both free to see others.